ETIQUETTE
Photo By Cory Freeman at Studio of Secrets
Booking A Kink Session
When you have decided on your desired kink pleasures, you can fill out my Contact Form or simply email me. When I have received your email or booking enquiry, you will have the opportunity to discuss your desired kink pleasures, date, time frame, and associated Tribute (fee). Once we’ve agreed upon the details, your kink session is booked and you’re ready to go.
I will always endeavour to answer your email inquiries promptly. Please allow THREE days for My response. You may send a follow-up or reminder email if you have not heard from Me for THREE days.
Day of Session
You will need to confirm prior to your session time. You must contact me via text to confirm.
If your session is before 1pm you will have confirmed the day before. If it is not possible to verbally confirm, you must advise me of the best method of contact. If you are new, at this stage you’ll receive relevant details on the location of my discreet studio based in Southbank Melbourne.
If I don’t receive your confirmation, your booking will become invalid and may be assigned to someone else.
Cancellations
If you need to cancel your session, it is respectful and highly regarded to give me as much notice as possible. Building a relationship of mutual consideration is fundamental. Once cancelled, trust will need to be rebuilt. Please note where I feel it is appropriate, I will request a non-refundable deposit for future bookings, or may charge a cancellation fee.
No Shows
If you miss your booking without cancellation, I will deem you to be a risk and any future bookings will require a substantial deposit. If you do not show up again, I will be unlikely to want further contact.
When You Arrive
At our appointment time proceed directly to the front door and ring the doorbell, I will be there to greet you and welcome you into my discreet Studio. Please be on time for your appointment and if you’re early, I’d kindly request you don’t ring the bell till your scheduled time and avoid lingering around the front of the building. Ideally wait in your car or take a gentle stroll down the road.
Late Arrivals
If you know you are running late, please let me know via text or call. If you are more than 15 minutes late, your session time may be affected.
If you are consistently late to your appointments, I retain the right to charge you for the time; your session may be shorter, or you may pay more to compensate my wait time.
Photo by Logan Black at Studio of Secrets
Hygiene and Cleanliness
Hygiene and Cleanliness are imperative to a good time.
Please arrive showered with fresh breath and deodorant. If you’re not feeling your freshest you will be offered the opportunity to have a shower, and deodorant and mouthwash will be supplied.
Every measure should be taken to ensure anal players, are ready to receive me. If I discover your anal cavity is full I will discontinue the activity. Options will be given for continuation of the session, but there will be no refunds.
During Your Session
Always remember that communication and consent is the key to any good session. I am here to facilitate your fantasy, and always aim for satisfying your desires. If my choices are not ‘hitting the mark’, please feel free to voice your suggestions to steer the play in a different direction. Likewise, when you’re really enjoying yourself, please let me know.
Using your safe word is an empowering way of relaxing and is highly encouraged. I will always respect your boundaries and only resume play at your comfort level.
If any medical emergencies arise, I am trained to take the necessary steps to protect you. If your life is in danger, I will not hesitate to call 000.
After Your Session
If you wish we can debrief and discuss how the session went for you. This may be addressing any concerns you might have or ideas for future sessions. I can also assist with a quick and quiet exit if that’s what you require.
If ‘sub space’ was achieved then coming back to reality needs to be handled delicately. I am trained to identify this state and give the required time and nurturing for a safe and secure return to conventional life.
You may feel sad, lonely, or generally upset after a particularly intense session; this is a phenomenon we call ‘sub drop’. If you do, please reach out via email or text me. I am dedicated to providing appropriate after care, even if this extends beyond the time of our session (within reason). If I feel you need more help than I can provide, I will suggest you see your GP, counsellor, or refer you to a phone service such as Lifeline or Sane.
You could also feel elated, or calm and content; that is also normal. I’m just as interested to hear from you, so feel free to send me an email to let me know how much you appreciated the session.